Boundaries

Why do we need boundaries?

We all could use a gentle and compassionate framework in our lives. To encourage us to live in audacious authenticity and savour as much as we can from our earthly experience, as ourselves.

To be true to the charge of our hearts, to know without question who we are and how we wish people to behave in our powerful presence.

We become the wise ethereal elder, the ancient ancestor, the vocal voice of resolution calling from the truest part of ourselves – to be heard, recognised and respected.

But firstly, we must see ourselves.

Love ourselves for our “warts n all”. To feel we warrant being kind, loving and gentle to the parts we have perhaps spent a lifetime shunning.
By welcoming, even more, celebrating the self-imposed “negative” sides to our being, until they integrate fluently into our unique and authentic expression.

To know where we start and where we end.

An automatic, invisible, energetic shield which creates a field of “do not fuck with me” aura around us, delivered with a soulful synergy of unadulterated love for self and other. The paradoxical patronage of bounded brotherhood.

Now that may seem harsh, but that’s because most of us have spent our lives taking care of others instead of prioritising our own well-being above all. The poetic plea of the people pleaser, destined to never sit on the pedestal.

To now put firm and loving boundaries in place is new.

To cement them into our lives is to instil self-worth, an unfamiliar and confronting terrain, very different to putting ourselves last.

As we begin to meticulously mould our boundaries, we announce across the universe, we have arrived.

After this arduous and exhausting journey we have found ourselves. We have found home.

A home protected and safe, granting us a life unbounded.

Join us at MYGA this coming Sunday, where we'll be talking Guilt. See you there ❤️